What people think it means
The one relative who steps in and takes charge: decides on treatment, gets the money out, arranges everything, inherits.
Plain answer · England and Wales · Scotland and Northern Ireland where different
Next of kin: what it means in the UK, and what yours can actually do
"Next of kin" is a label, not a legal role. No Act in England and Wales defines it, and it gives nobody the right to decide your care, run your money or deal with what you leave. The person you name can only act on what you leave them.
Someone has died and you are the next of kin? → What to do when someone dies · The first steps, in order · Registering a death in Scotland. Naming yours, or wondering who yours is? Read on.
What "next of kin" means, and what it doesn't
Next of kin means whoever you say it means. Hospitals, GPs and employers ask for a name, and you can give anyone's.
University Hospital Southampton's clinical law team puts it plainly: the answer to "who should I name" is "anyone they choose", ideally someone "readily contactable" who will "act in a sensible way".
There is "no distinction between blood relatives, family, friends and acquaintances". UHS NHS trust, source: UHS NHS trust, clinical law update (opens in a new tab)
The phrase has no legal definition. The same NHS trust: the next of kin "has no legal status, being undefined in English law", and "the phrase has not appeared in English statute for many years". UHS NHS trust, source: UHS NHS trust, clinical law update (opens in a new tab)
The Metropolitan Police's own death-investigation policy says the term "is widely used, but has no legal definition in the UK". Metropolitan Police, source: Metropolitan Police, death investigation policy (opens in a new tab)
So the title carries no powers. It cannot consent to your treatment, open your bank account, sign for your house or decide who inherits from you.
Each of those is governed by a different rule, and each rule names its own person. The next section lists every one of them.
What it actually is
The name on a form. The hospital rings it. Nothing else follows from it unless a will, a registered power of attorney or a statute says so.
Where the law does name who it listens to
In twelve situations the law, a bank or the NHS names who it will listen to, and "next of kin" is the answer in none of them. Here is each one, with the rule in a line, the nation it applies to, the official source and the day we read it.
| Situation | Who the law listens to | The rule, in one line | Nation | Source | Read on |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Row 1Who the hospital calls and keeps informed | The person you named. No powers come with it. | "Anyone they choose." You can name a friend, a neighbour, the person who walks your dog. | E&W | 4 Nov 2026 | |
| Row 2Treatment when you cannot decide | Nobody, by relationship. | If you have not appointed a lasting power of attorney for health and welfare, the doctors "can go ahead and give treatment" in your best interests, and "must take reasonable steps to discuss the situation with the person's friends or relatives" first. Only a registered attorney or a Court of Protection deputy decides for you. Scotland: without a registered welfare power of attorney, "nobody has an automatic right to make decisions on your behalf"; a doctor treats under a section 47 certificate, taking into account the views of the nearest relative, named person and primary carer "in so far as it is reasonable and practicable"; a sheriff can appoint a welfare guardian. | E&W · SCO |
| 4 Nov 2026 |
| Row 3Detention under the Mental Health Act | The nearest relative, a fixed list. | Husband, wife or civil partner (a partner you have lived with for 6 months counts); son or daughter; father or mother; brother or sister; grandparent; grandchild; uncle or aunt; nephew or niece. Whole blood before half; the eldest of equal rank comes first. Scotland: there has been no nearest relative role under the Mental Health (Care and Treatment) (Scotland) Act 2003 since 30 June 2017; you have a named person only if you nominate one, and the person you nominate must agree. Northern Ireland: the Mental Health (Northern Ireland) Order 1986 lists spouse or civil partner, child, parent, brother or sister, grandparent, grandchild, uncle or aunt, nephew or niece; the one "who is caring for the patient" comes first, then the eldest within a rank; a partner of 6 months counts as a spouse. | E&W · SCO · NI |
| 4 Nov 2026 |
| Row 4Organ and tissue donation | You, by your recorded decision; then your family, in a ranked list. | Opt-out applies in England (from 20 May 2020), Scotland (26 March 2021) and Northern Ireland (1 June 2023), and "your family will be consulted" in all three. Where consent is needed after death, the Human Tissue Act ranks qualifying relationships: spouse, civil partner or partner; parent or child; brother or sister; grandparent or grandchild; niece or nephew; step-parent; half-brother or half-sister; friend of longstanding. Equal rank: any one of them can consent. | E&W, NI (dates: all three) | 4 Nov 2026 | |
| Row 5Registering the death | A relative first; then a short list. | England and Wales: "a relative should register the death"; if none can, someone who was there at the death, a hospital administrator, or the person arranging the funeral, within 5 days. Scotland: a relative, someone present, the executor or solicitor, or someone who lived with them if they died at home, within 8 days. Northern Ireland: a relative (including by marriage), someone present, the person arranging the funeral, or the executor or administrator, within 5 days. | E&W · SCO · NI | 4 Nov 2026 | |
| Row 6Arranging the funeral | The executor; with no will, the person first in line to administer the estate. In Scotland, a statutory list. | England and Wales: the duty "falls first on the executor"; with no will, "the highest ranked next-of-kin under intestacy rules". Written wishes are usually followed but there is "no legal obligation" to follow them. Scotland: the nearest relative under the Burial and Cremation (Scotland) Act 2016: spouse or civil partner; a partner of 6 months or more; child (a stepchild counts); parent; brother or sister; grandparent; grandchild; uncle or aunt; cousin; niece or nephew; a friend of long standing, unless the person signed an arrangements on death declaration. | E&W · SCO | 4 Nov 2026 | |
| Row 7An inquest | Interested persons, a statutory list. | Spouse, civil partner, partner ("living as partners in an enduring relationship"), parent, child, brother, sister, grandparent, grandchild, niece or nephew, step-parent, half-brother or half-sister; and anyone the coroner thinks has a sufficient interest. | E&W | 4 Nov 2026 | |
| Row 8Who inherits when there is no will | A fixed order, not the "closest" person. | England and Wales: the husband, wife or civil partner first, everything up to £322,000 (deaths from 26 July 2023) plus half the rest if there are children; then children; parents; brothers and sisters; half-brothers and half-sisters; grandparents; aunts and uncles; half-aunts and uncles; then "the whole estate goes to the Crown". An unmarried partner inherits nothing under these rules. Scotland: prior rights first (the home up to £473,000, furnishings to £29,000, cash £50,000 with children or £89,000 without), then legal rights, then a fixed order; a cohabitant may ask the court for a share, within six months. Northern Ireland: the spouse or civil partner takes the first £250,000 (£450,000 if no children), then children, parents, brothers and sisters; an unmarried partner gets no automatic share. | E&W · SCO · NI | 4 Nov 2026 | |
| Row 9Who may deal with the estate when there is no will | The most entitled person, in order. | England and Wales: "the closest living relative - normally the husband, wife or civil partner (including if you were separated) followed by any children 18 or over (including legally adopted children but not step-children)"; then parents, brothers and sisters of the whole blood, of the half blood, grandparents, uncles and aunts. "You cannot apply if you're the partner of the person but were not their husband, wife or civil partner." The grant is PA1A letters of administration. Scotland: with no will the sheriff court appoints an executor dative, "normally the surviving spouse or civil partner", otherwise another person entitled to inherit; a bond of caution may be needed, and the sheriff clerk helps with estates under £36,000. Scotland: confirmation, not probate → our Scotland page. | E&W · SCO |
| 4 Nov 2026 |
| Row 10Bank accounts | The bank, under its own rules; then the executor or administrator. | A sole account is frozen: "cards and cheque books cancelled". Below a ceiling the bank sets itself, it releases the money on its own form; above it, it wants the grant. Nationwide: under £50,000 with its bereavement form; above, "a Grant of Representation". Citizens Advice: it is "usually against the law … to get money from the estate, until you have probate or letters of administration". Every bank's figure: our thresholds table. | UK | 4 Nov 2026 | |
| Row 11Pensions | The scheme's trustees or the provider, at their discretion. | They "have the right to choose who receives your pension after you die" and "will usually choose those listed on your expression of wish form, but they do not have to". "Next of kin" is not the test; the form is. | UK | 4 Nov 2026 | |
| Row 12Government records and benefits | Whoever registers the death, with the family's permission. | Tell Us Once reports a death to most government bodies in one go, in England, Scotland and Wales (not Northern Ireland). The registrar offers it. Whoever uses it "needs permission from any surviving spouse or civil partner, the next of kin, executor, administrator" before giving their details. | E, S, W | 4 Nov 2026 |
Row 1
Who the hospital calls and keeps informed
Who the law listens to
The person you named. No powers come with it.
The rule, in one line
"Anyone they choose." You can name a friend, a neighbour, the person who walks your dog.
Row 2
Treatment when you cannot decide
Who the law listens to
Nobody, by relationship.
The rule, in one line
If you have not appointed a lasting power of attorney for health and welfare, the doctors "can go ahead and give treatment" in your best interests, and "must take reasonable steps to discuss the situation with the person's friends or relatives" first. Only a registered attorney or a Court of Protection deputy decides for you.
Scotland: without a registered welfare power of attorney, "nobody has an automatic right to make decisions on your behalf"; a doctor treats under a section 47 certificate, taking into account the views of the nearest relative, named person and primary carer "in so far as it is reasonable and practicable"; a sheriff can appoint a welfare guardian.
Nation
E&W · SCO
Source
- NHS, Consent to treatment (opens in a new tab)
- gov.uk, Make decisions for someone (opens in a new tab)
- mygov.scot, Power of attorney (opens in a new tab)
- Adults with Incapacity (Scotland) Act 2000, s.1 (opens in a new tab)
- Adults with Incapacity (Scotland) Act 2000, s.47 (opens in a new tab)
- Mental Welfare Commission, Adults with Incapacity Act (opens in a new tab)
- Office of the Public Guardian (Scotland) (opens in a new tab)
Read on
4 Nov 2026
Row 3
Detention under the Mental Health Act
Who the law listens to
The nearest relative, a fixed list.
The rule, in one line
Husband, wife or civil partner (a partner you have lived with for 6 months counts); son or daughter; father or mother; brother or sister; grandparent; grandchild; uncle or aunt; nephew or niece. Whole blood before half; the eldest of equal rank comes first.
Scotland: there has been no nearest relative role under the Mental Health (Care and Treatment) (Scotland) Act 2003 since 30 June 2017; you have a named person only if you nominate one, and the person you nominate must agree.
Northern Ireland: the Mental Health (Northern Ireland) Order 1986 lists spouse or civil partner, child, parent, brother or sister, grandparent, grandchild, uncle or aunt, nephew or niece; the one "who is caring for the patient" comes first, then the eldest within a rank; a partner of 6 months counts as a spouse.
Nation
E&W · SCO · NI
Source
- Mental Health Act 1983, s.26 (opens in a new tab)
- Mental Health (Care and Treatment) (Scotland) Act 2003, s.250 (opens in a new tab)
- Mental Welfare Commission, Mental Health Act (opens in a new tab)
- Mental Health (Northern Ireland) Order 1986, art.32 (opens in a new tab)
- nidirect, Your rights in health (opens in a new tab)
Read on
4 Nov 2026
Row 4
Organ and tissue donation
Who the law listens to
You, by your recorded decision; then your family, in a ranked list.
The rule, in one line
Opt-out applies in England (from 20 May 2020), Scotland (26 March 2021) and Northern Ireland (1 June 2023), and "your family will be consulted" in all three.
Where consent is needed after death, the Human Tissue Act ranks qualifying relationships: spouse, civil partner or partner; parent or child; brother or sister; grandparent or grandchild; niece or nephew; step-parent; half-brother or half-sister; friend of longstanding. Equal rank: any one of them can consent.
Nation
E&W, NI (dates: all three)
Source
Read on
4 Nov 2026
Row 5
Registering the death
Who the law listens to
A relative first; then a short list.
The rule, in one line
England and Wales: "a relative should register the death"; if none can, someone who was there at the death, a hospital administrator, or the person arranging the funeral, within 5 days.
Scotland: a relative, someone present, the executor or solicitor, or someone who lived with them if they died at home, within 8 days.
Northern Ireland: a relative (including by marriage), someone present, the person arranging the funeral, or the executor or administrator, within 5 days.
Nation
E&W · SCO · NI
Read on
4 Nov 2026
Row 6
Arranging the funeral
Who the law listens to
The executor; with no will, the person first in line to administer the estate. In Scotland, a statutory list.
The rule, in one line
England and Wales: the duty "falls first on the executor"; with no will, "the highest ranked next-of-kin under intestacy rules". Written wishes are usually followed but there is "no legal obligation" to follow them.
Scotland: the nearest relative under the Burial and Cremation (Scotland) Act 2016: spouse or civil partner; a partner of 6 months or more; child (a stepchild counts); parent; brother or sister; grandparent; grandchild; uncle or aunt; cousin; niece or nephew; a friend of long standing, unless the person signed an arrangements on death declaration.
Nation
E&W · SCO
Source
Read on
4 Nov 2026
Row 7
An inquest
Who the law listens to
Interested persons, a statutory list.
The rule, in one line
Spouse, civil partner, partner ("living as partners in an enduring relationship"), parent, child, brother, sister, grandparent, grandchild, niece or nephew, step-parent, half-brother or half-sister; and anyone the coroner thinks has a sufficient interest.
Row 8
Who inherits when there is no will
Who the law listens to
A fixed order, not the "closest" person.
The rule, in one line
England and Wales: the husband, wife or civil partner first, everything up to £322,000 (deaths from 26 July 2023) plus half the rest if there are children; then children; parents; brothers and sisters; half-brothers and half-sisters; grandparents; aunts and uncles; half-aunts and uncles; then "the whole estate goes to the Crown". An unmarried partner inherits nothing under these rules.
Scotland: prior rights first (the home up to £473,000, furnishings to £29,000, cash £50,000 with children or £89,000 without), then legal rights, then a fixed order; a cohabitant may ask the court for a share, within six months.
Northern Ireland: the spouse or civil partner takes the first £250,000 (£450,000 if no children), then children, parents, brothers and sisters; an unmarried partner gets no automatic share.
Row 9
Who may deal with the estate when there is no will
Who the law listens to
The most entitled person, in order.
The rule, in one line
England and Wales: "the closest living relative - normally the husband, wife or civil partner (including if you were separated) followed by any children 18 or over (including legally adopted children but not step-children)"; then parents, brothers and sisters of the whole blood, of the half blood, grandparents, uncles and aunts.
"You cannot apply if you're the partner of the person but were not their husband, wife or civil partner." The grant is PA1A letters of administration.
Scotland: with no will the sheriff court appoints an executor dative, "normally the surviving spouse or civil partner", otherwise another person entitled to inherit; a bond of caution may be needed, and the sheriff clerk helps with estates under £36,000.
Scotland: confirmation, not probate → our Scotland page.
Nation
E&W · SCO
Source
- gov.uk, Applying for probate (opens in a new tab)
- Non-Contentious Probate Rules 1987, r.22 (opens in a new tab)
- mygov.scot, Being the executor of a will (opens in a new tab)
- gov.scot (executor dative) (opens in a new tab)
- Scottish Courts, Small estates (opens in a new tab)
- Scottish Courts, Dealing with an estate (opens in a new tab)
Read on
4 Nov 2026
Row 10
Bank accounts
Who the law listens to
The bank, under its own rules; then the executor or administrator.
The rule, in one line
A sole account is frozen: "cards and cheque books cancelled". Below a ceiling the bank sets itself, it releases the money on its own form; above it, it wants the grant.
Nationwide: under £50,000 with its bereavement form; above, "a Grant of Representation".
Citizens Advice: it is "usually against the law … to get money from the estate, until you have probate or letters of administration". Every bank's figure: our thresholds table.
Nation
UK
Source
Read on
4 Nov 2026
Row 11
Pensions
Who the law listens to
The scheme's trustees or the provider, at their discretion.
The rule, in one line
They "have the right to choose who receives your pension after you die" and "will usually choose those listed on your expression of wish form, but they do not have to". "Next of kin" is not the test; the form is.
Row 12
Government records and benefits
Who the law listens to
Whoever registers the death, with the family's permission.
The rule, in one line
Tell Us Once reports a death to most government bodies in one go, in England, Scotland and Wales (not Northern Ireland). The registrar offers it. Whoever uses it "needs permission from any surviving spouse or civil partner, the next of kin, executor, administrator" before giving their details.
"Next of kin" is a label other people's rules borrow, and in every row above the person who matters is named by a will, a registered power of attorney, a statute or a form. Three things carry weight: a will, a registered power of attorney, and the whereabouts of everything.
Naming your next of kin, and what they will need
Name one person, and tell them.
Four places ask: your hospital and GP record (choose someone "readily contactable" who will "act in a sensible way" UHS NHS trust, source: UHS NHS trust, clinical law update (opens in a new tab)), your employer's emergency contact, the emergency contact on your phone's lock screen, and the person you would want rung first. They can all be the same person. They need not be family.
Then give them something to act on. The title gets them the phone call. It does not get them your will, your policies, your passwords, your solicitor's name or the key to the drawer.
In the week it matters they will be asked for all of those, by people who will not accept "I'm the next of kin" as an answer.
At a glance
Next of kin
A phone call
A will
The executor
A registered power of attorney
The attorney
The whereabouts of everything
The named person can act
Next of kin sheet — who I have named, and where things are
- Who I have named (hospital · GP · work · phone)
- Where my will is, and who the executor is
- Whether a power of attorney exists, and where it is registered
- Where my funeral wishes are written
- Where everything else is kept (policies, pensions, accounts, passwords)
- Who to ring first, second, third
This is a guide to help you gather the right information. It is not legal advice.
Type it on your computer
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After a death: what a next of kin is asked to do, and what needs the grant
In the first days, "next of kin" is enough.
Register the death (5 days; 8 in Scotland) gov.uk, source: gov.uk (opens in a new tab)mygov.scot, source: mygov.scot (opens in a new tab); meet the funeral director; say yes to Tell Us Once at the registrar's desk gov.uk, source: gov.uk (opens in a new tab); tell the bank, which will freeze the sole accounts Lloyds, source: Lloyds (opens in a new tab). Nobody will ask for a grant for any of these. The first steps, in order
After that, a title is not enough. Money above the bank's ceiling, the house, the pension, selling anything: these go to the executor with the grant of probate (PA1P), or the administrator with letters of administration (PA1A) when there is no will; in Scotland, confirmation.
Being next of kin on the form does not get you into the account. It never did.
The bank freezes a sole account and deals with the person who holds the grant, or, below its own ceiling, with whoever completes its bereavement form. What each bank releases without a grant → our thresholds table.
Partners, friends, estranged family, nobody at all
An unmarried partner
Hospital: yes, if you name them UHS NHS trust, source: UHS NHS trust, clinical law update (opens in a new tab).
Mental Health Act: counts as a spouse after 6 months living together Mental Health Act 1983, s.26, source: Mental Health Act 1983, s.26 (opens in a new tab).
Scotland's funeral list: second, after 6 months asp 2016 s.65, source: asp 2016 s.65 (opens in a new tab).
Inheritance with no will: nothing in England and Wales (Citizens Advice's own example: "Beata also doesn't inherit anything because she hasn't married Alan" Citizens Advice, source: Citizens Advice (opens in a new tab)); a court claim exists under the 1975 Act, which is a claim, not an entitlement; in Scotland, a claim to the court within six months gov.scot, source: gov.scot (cohabitants) (opens in a new tab); in Northern Ireland "you won't automatically get a share" nidirect, source: nidirect (opens in a new tab).
Cannot apply to administer the estate gov.uk, source: gov.uk, Applying for probate (opens in a new tab). Why the law is like this, and what is changing
A friend
Can be the name on every form UHS NHS trust, source: UHS NHS trust, clinical law update (opens in a new tab). "Friend of longstanding" is last on the organ-donation list Human Tissue Act 2004, s.27, source: Human Tissue Act 2004, s.27 (opens in a new tab) and on Scotland's funeral list asp 2016 s.65, source: asp 2016 s.65 (opens in a new tab). Inherits only if a will says so. Can be your executor or your attorney if you appoint them.
Estranged family
The lists do not know who you were close to. A separated spouse is still first in line to administer the estate "(including if you were separated)" gov.uk, source: gov.uk, Applying for probate (opens in a new tab) and still inherits on intestacy.
The only way round a list is to replace it: a will, and a registered power of attorney.
E&W
Nobody at all
The estate "passes to the Crown", called bona vacantia Citizens Advice, source: Citizens Advice (opens in a new tab).
Where "no suitable arrangements for the disposal of the body have been or are being made", the local authority has a duty to arrange the funeral, a public health funeral, and may recover the cost from the estate. Public Health (Control of Disease) Act 1984, s.46, source: Public Health (Control of Disease) Act 1984, s.46 (opens in a new tab)gov.uk, source: gov.uk, Public health funerals (opens in a new tab)
A will and a named attorney replace a family the law cannot find. Make the will
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