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Getting your affairs in order — at your own pace.

The whole checklist, free, on one page: documents, money, property, digital access, the people to name, and the wishes nobody can guess. Six areas and 35 things worth writing down.

Nothing to sign up for and nothing to wait for. Read it on screen or print it, work down it in whatever order suits, and leave the answers somewhere the people who might need them can find them.

If someone has already died, this is not the page you need first — start with the first week instead, and come back to this when there is room to.

What "in order" actually means

There is no single right moment for this. Some people work through it in their fifties, because a parent's estate was a mess and they would rather not do that to anybody. Some work through it in a fortnight, because a diagnosis has changed the shape of the year. Both are entirely ordinary, and the list below is the same list either way.

"In order" does not mean everything is decided. It means somebody who is not you could find what exists, reach the right people, and act — without guessing, and without opening every drawer in the house. That is a lower bar than most people imagine, and a far more useful one than "sort out the will one day".

So take the six areas below in whatever order suits. Nothing here needs doing today and nothing here needs doing all at once. What matters is only that the answers end up somewhere findable, rather than living entirely in your head — where they are, at the moment, doing nobody any good but you.

The checklist — six areas

Every item carries a short note on what makes it actually done — because "make a will" is not the hard part, and "write down your passwords" is advice worth ignoring. 35 items across six areas, all of it free and none of it requiring an account.

Free · no account needed · the tick boxes print blank so you can work down it with a pen. Everything here is on screen or print-at-home — there is nothing to post for and nothing arriving in the mail.
Area 01

Documents

The papers themselves — and, just as important, where each original is kept.

  • Your will, and where the original is

    Note the firm or person holding it, any reference number, and the date it was signed. Where there is no valid will, the rules of intestacy decide who inherits in England & Wales — so the location of the original matters nearly as much as the document.

  • Lasting powers of attorney

    There are two: one for property and financial affairs, one for health and welfare. They are separate documents, registered with the OPG, and they can only be made while you still have the capacity to choose who acts for you.

  • Birth, marriage and civil partnership certificates

    Plus any deed poll, decree absolute or dissolution order. Institutions ask for originals far more often than people expect, and replacements take time nobody has spare.

  • Property deeds and title numbers

    If the title is registered, the title number is usually enough for anyone to find the rest. If it is not registered, write down who physically holds the deeds — a lender, a solicitor, or a drawer at home.

  • A letter of wishes

    The informal note that sits beside a will and explains the thinking behind it — tone, reasons, and the small personal instructions that do not belong in a legal document.

  • Where the folder actually lives

    One place, and two people who know about it. A perfect set of papers that nobody can find is precisely the failure this whole exercise exists to prevent.

Area 02

Money

Not balances. Where things are held, and who to ask.

  • Every account, and who holds it

    Current, savings, ISAs, joint accounts, credit-union or building-society passbooks. The provider and the rough purpose is enough — balances go stale within a month and nobody needs them.

  • Pensions, including the forgotten ones

    Workplace schemes from earlier jobs are the ones most often lost. List each scheme and provider, and check the nomination or expression-of-wishes form each scheme holds still names the person you would choose today.

  • Life cover and death-in-service

    Policy numbers, the insurer, and whether the policy is written in trust — your insurer or adviser can confirm which, and it changes who deals with the payout.

  • What is owed

    Mortgage, loans, cards, car finance, buy-now-pay-later, and anything held jointly. Debts do not quietly disappear, and whoever sorts things out needs the list far more urgently than they need the assets.

  • Money leaving every month

    Direct debits, standing orders and subscriptions. Someone will eventually stop these one at a time; a written list turns a fortnight of detective work into a single afternoon.

  • Investments and holdings

    Shares, funds, Premium Bonds, NS&I, anything held through an app. Record where it is held and how the holding is evidenced — a certificate, a statement, an account number. Never the login.

Area 03

Property and possessions

The physical things — and how each one is actually owned.

  • How the home is held

    Sole name or joint — and if joint, whether as joint tenants or tenants in common. It matters: property held as joint tenants passes automatically to the survivor, outside the estate. Your conveyancer or the register will confirm which applies.

  • Renting rather than owning

    Note the landlord or agent, the tenancy type and the renewal date. A tenancy is a live obligation with a clock on it, not a possession that simply sits there.

  • Vehicles, storage and outbuildings

    A car, a motorbike under a cover, a storage unit still on direct debit, a lock-up, an allotment, a safe deposit box. The forgotten ones are usually the ones still costing money every month.

  • Anything promised to a particular person

    Write it down. Promises made warmly across a kitchen table are easily forgotten and easily disputed, and a single written line settles what a year of argument cannot.

  • Keys and access

    Who holds a spare key, an alarm code, a gate fob, a neighbour's copy. Record the names of the people who have them — not the codes themselves.

Area 04

Digital life

The section every checklist includes and almost none get right. Record where things are. Never record the passwords.

  • Your email account, first

    It is the recovery route to nearly everything else. If someone can lawfully reach the email, most other doors open in the ordinary way; if they cannot, very few do.

  • Accounts that hold money or take it

    Payment apps, marketplaces with a balance, cloud storage, streaming, anything with a card on file. Two questions per account: does it hold value, and does it take money monthly?

  • Where the photographs actually live

    A phone, a laptop, a cloud account, an external drive in a drawer. It is the thing families most often go looking for, and the thing least often written down anywhere.

  • Legacy contacts and inactive-account settings

    Several large providers let you nominate someone in advance, inside your own account settings. Each takes minutes, and each works without anyone ever holding your password.

  • Devices, and who could unlock them

    Record that a device exists and who would know how to reach what is on it. Not the PIN, not the pattern, not the passcode.

  • The line worth holding

    A list of where is safe to keep in a drawer for years. A list of passwords is not. If you take one thing from this section, take that — it is the point on which the popular checklists are simply wrong.

Area 05

People to name

Names — and whether each person has actually been told.

  • Executors, and whether they know

    The person named in a will to deal with an estate is an executor. Where there is no will, the person who deals with it is an administrator instead — appointed under the intestacy rules rather than chosen by you.

  • Attorneys, and replacements

    Whoever you name under an LPA, plus at least one replacement. A single attorney with no substitute is a plan with exactly one point of failure in it.

  • A first contact for the household

    The person who would be rung first. Not necessarily the executor, and not necessarily family — one name, chosen calmly, and told in advance rather than discovered.

  • Guardians, if you have children under 18

    Named in the will, and — the step most often skipped — asked first, properly, before the name goes anywhere near a document.

  • Professionals, by name and firm

    Solicitor, accountant, financial adviser, GP surgery. A firm name and a client reference is the difference between one phone call and an afternoon of them.

  • Who to tell, and in what order

    A short list, in the order you would want it worked through. It costs ten minutes and it is quietly the kindest item on this entire page.

Area 06

Wishes

The part that is not paperwork — and the part families are most relieved to find written down.

  • Funeral or cremation

    Which one, whether anything is prepaid, and the provider if so. Note it somewhere findable rather than only inside the will — a will is often not read until after the funeral has already happened.

  • The details that make it yours

    Music, readings, who speaks, what people should wear, whether you would want flowers or a collection instead. Small things, and impossible to guess.

  • Organ and tissue donation

    Whether you have registered a decision, and whether the people closest to you know what it is. Both halves matter; the second one is the half usually missing.

  • Care preferences, if health changes

    Where you would want to be looked after, what matters most to you day to day, and what you would not want. Written calmly now, read gratefully later.

  • Pets

    Who takes them, what they eat, the vet's name and any medication. The most-forgotten item on every version of this list, and the one that causes the most immediate distress.

  • Anything you want said

    A letter, a recording, a note for one particular person. There is no required format — only that somebody knows it exists and where to find it.

One rule holds the whole list together: write down where things are and who to ask — never the passwords, PINs or security answers. A list of locations is safe in a drawer for a decade. A list of credentials is a standing risk to the person who wrote it, from the day it is written.

What happens if the will never gets made

Area one opens with the will for a reason. Where there is no valid will, the law decides — and the outcome surprises a great many people who assumed the obvious would happen. The figures below are England & Wales.

England & Wales · the rules of intestacy

Where there is no will, the intestacy rules decide who inherits — not you.

£0
Statutory legacy · spouse or civil partner

A surviving spouse or civil partner inherits the whole estate where it is worth £322,000 or less. Above that they take £322,000, the personal possessions, and half of what remains — the rest passing to children. The figure was set on 26 July 2023.

Nothing
What an unmarried partner inherits

Under the intestacy rules an unmarried or cohabiting partner inherits nothing, however long you lived together and whatever you shared. The exceptions are assets held as joint tenants, which pass automatically outside the estate, and a discretionary court claim.

£0
Probate application fee · estates over £5,000

The application fee is £526 where the estate is worth more than £5,000, and there is no fee at all at £5,000 or less. It rose from £300 on 13 July 2026.

Figures for England & Wales. Scotland and Northern Ireland run different systems — see the next section.

There is a second difference people rarely expect. The person who deals with an estate left without a will is an administrator, not an executor, and they apply for a grant of letters of administration on form PA1A rather than a grant of probate. The right to apply follows a fixed statutory order — spouse or civil partner first, then children and grandchildren, then parents, then siblings, and on down the family tree. Applicants must be 18 or over and have mental capacity. Where nobody in that chain applies, an estate can eventually pass to the Crown as bona vacantia.

None of that is an argument for panic. It is only the reason the will sits at the top of area one rather than somewhere near the bottom. What a will does, and when it needs a solicitor

Which rules apply where you live

The six areas above are the same everywhere in the UK. The law behind them is not, and most checklists on this subject quietly assume England — which is fine right up until it isn't.

England & Wales

The rules of intestacy decide who inherits where there is no valid will. The person dealing with the estate applies for letters of administration on form PA1A. The application fee is £526 for estates worth more than £5,000, and nothing at £5,000 or less. Extra copies of the grant ordered at the same time as the application are £2 each; ordered later, they are £16 each.

Scotland

A separate system entirely, under the Succession (Scotland) Act 1964 — not the 1925 Act that governs England & Wales. There is no single statutory-legacy figure. A surviving spouse or civil partner takes prior rights before the estate is divided at all, and legal rights then apply for spouse and children over the moveable estate. The England & Wales figures on this page do not carry across, and should not be assumed to.

Northern Ireland

Broadly mirrors the England & Wales priority order, but is a separate legal and administrative system, governed by the Administration of Estates (Northern Ireland) Order 1979. Applications go through the Northern Ireland Probate Office, and the no-will application form is NIPF2 — not the PA1A used in England & Wales.

Information, not advice. Where the answer turns on your own circumstances — a cross-border estate, a business, a trust, property abroad — the person to ask is a solicitor qualified in the relevant jurisdiction.

Where to go next — all free

Each of these takes one area of the checklist and gives you somewhere to actually put the answers. Nothing on this row costs anything, and none of it needs an account.

There is more of this — briefs on capacity, pensions, digital access and the rest — in the library. And if what you are facing is a parent's affairs rather than your own, there is a version of this written for that.

VI · If you would rather not do it yourself

The same six areas, prepared for you.

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Questions people ask first

Start with where things are, not what to decide. The single most useful hour is spent listing the accounts, policies and documents that already exist and where each one lives — that alone turns an unknowable set of affairs into a findable one.

Decisions about who should inherit what can follow later, and they are far easier to make once the whole picture is written down in front of you.
Not for the listing part. Writing down what exists and where it is kept needs nobody's permission and costs nothing.

Some pieces do warrant professional input: a will where the estate is not straightforward, anything involving a trust, business interests, property abroad, or a second family. This page is information rather than advice — where the answer turns on your own circumstances, a solicitor or an accountant is the right person to ask.
In England & Wales the rules of intestacy decide who inherits, rather than you.

A surviving spouse or civil partner inherits the whole estate where it is worth £322,000 or less. Above that they receive £322,000, the personal possessions, and half of what remains, with the rest passing to children. An unmarried or cohabiting partner inherits nothing under those rules, however long you lived together, unless assets were held as joint tenants.

The person dealing with the estate is different too: they are an administrator applying for letters of administration on form PA1A, rather than an executor applying for a grant of probate.
No — and this is the point at which most checklists go wrong.

Record which accounts exist and where they are, never the credentials. Where a provider offers a legacy contact or an inactive-account setting, use that instead: it hands access to the person you choose, at the moment it is genuinely needed, without a written password sitting in a drawer for years in the meantime.
No, and the two do different jobs. A will decides who inherits; this list is what makes everything else findable.

Most of what a family struggles with is not contested inheritance — it is not knowing which bank, which pension, which insurer or which account holds what. Both are worth having, and only one of them costs anything.
The practical list does. The law does not.

Scotland runs a separate system under the Succession (Scotland) Act 1964, with prior rights and legal rights rather than a single statutory legacy — the England & Wales figures on this page do not carry across at all. Northern Ireland broadly mirrors the England & Wales priority order but is administered separately, through the Northern Ireland Probate Office, using form NIPF2 rather than PA1A.
Once a year is plenty for most households, plus any time something structural changes.

A house move, a marriage or a divorce, a new baby, a new job with a new pension scheme, a bereavement, a diagnosis — each one quietly makes part of the list wrong. Twenty minutes annually is usually enough to keep it true.
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Whose affairs are you putting in order?

One page, worked through slowly, is worth more than a filing cabinet nobody can open.

Take one area a week if that suits. The point is only that someone else could find it — and that you never have to hold the whole of it in your head again.

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