The password manager: the central key
One decision does more than everything else on this page combined: put a password manager at the centre, and seal its recovery route. Most consumer managers (1Password, Bitwarden, Dashlane) issue a one-page Emergency Kit at setup. Print it, sign it, seal it in a tamper-evident envelope, and store it with your solicitor or in a bank deposit box.
The kit is lawful to use after your death because you configured the access and named its conditions while you had capacity — that is the entire legal distinction between an Emergency Kit and a whispered master password.
1Password (Families) and LastPass go further with Emergency Access: a nominated contact can request access, and if you don't veto within a waiting period you set — typically 7–30 days — access is granted. This is the most lawful, lowest-friction handover route that exists in 2026.
Apple, Google, Microsoft: the platform legacy mechanisms
Apple Legacy Contact
Nominate one or more people; each gets an Access Key. After a death, Access Key + death certificate unlocks iCloud photos, notes, files and messages (not Keychain passwords, not Apple Pay).
Google Inactive Account Manager
Set an inactivity window (3, 6, 12 or 18 months), nominate up to ten trusted contacts, choose exactly which services they may receive, optionally auto-delete afterwards.
Microsoft
Next of kin must contact Microsoft Support with a death certificate, a will, and proof of relationship. You can't pre-configure it, but you can record that this is the route, so your executor doesn't burn a week discovering it.
Social media: memorialise or delete — choose now
Facebook / Instagram offer a Legacy Contact who can manage a memorialised profile (never read messages) — or you can set the account to delete on memorialisation. It's a one-time choice; make it deliberately.
LinkedIn is request-based: a family member files a form with the obituary or death certificate. X only supports deactivation by immediate family — if an account's archive matters to you, download it while you can; nobody can after.
Banks, pensions, crypto: where the rules invert
For banks, brokers, pensions and insurers, the rule inverts: never use the deceased's credentials, even though the family could. Every UK institution has a formal bereavement team, and it is faster, kinder, and lawful — what your records need is the list of institutions, not the logins.
Crypto is the one exception with no bereavement team anywhere: a seed phrase nobody can find is an asset that has ceased to exist. Write it on metal or archival paper, seal it, store it with your solicitor — and record only that it exists, never the phrase itself.
The quarterly hour that makes any of this work
Digital legacy doesn't fail at setup. It fails eighteen months later — the Legacy Contact silently dropped during a phone upgrade, the recovery email now defunct, the Emergency Kit moved house without anyone updating the note that says where it lives. Once a quarter, in under an hour: verify the Legacy Contact, check the Inactive Account Manager's contacts, confirm Emergency Access is still configured, sweep one bank statement for subscriptions, confirm the recovery email still opens.
This is the point where a document stops being enough — a static PDF can't tell you the Legacy Contact got unset.
The map is free. Keeping it true is the work.
This guide — and the printable brief below — give you the full architecture. Household Continuity Dossier membership (£195 first year, then £99/year) holds it as a living record: your platforms, your named contacts, your Emergency Kit location, reviewed annually, with the Governance Letter issued when a circumstance changes.
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The Digital Legacy Brief is the printable companion to this guide — the same architecture as a fill-in document, worked through the Pemberton-Walsh household example. Free, no account required.
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