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Operational guide · 2026

Tell Us Once — what the service does, and what it does not

What government does for you after a death — and what remains the family's job.

Standard Index Group18 March 20266 min read515 words

When a death is registered in England, Scotland, or Wales, the registrar offers the family access to a service called Tell Us Once. The service is free, voluntary, and routinely under-explained. Most people are offered it during the registration appointment, when they are at the lowest cognitive bandwidth of their adult life, and they accept or decline without quite understanding what they have accepted or declined.

This piece is what should be explained at the point of offer, and is not.

What Tell Us Once actually does

From a single registration session — in person or by telephone callback — the registrar shares the death information with up to twenty-six government services. The principal ones are HM Revenue & Customs (for income tax and tax credits), the Department for Work and Pensions (for State Pension and benefits), the Driver and Vehicle Licensing Agency, the Passport Office, the local council (for council tax and Blue Badge), and Veterans UK where relevant. The service operates on the deceased's National Insurance number, which is why the family is asked to bring it.

What Tell Us Once does not do is notify banks, building societies, utility providers, private pension schemes, credit card companies, insurance providers, mobile phone networks, broadband providers, or any subscription services. None of those organisations receive any signal at all from the death registration. They continue to bill, charge interest, accrue late fees, and in the case of credit cards may file the account as delinquent — until somebody tells them, individually, what has happened.

The reference number that matters

Tell Us Once generates a Unique Reference Number (URN) at the close of the appointment. The URN allows the family to revisit or amend the notification later, which becomes useful when an organisation initially notified does not appear to have updated its records.

More importantly, the URN is the receipt that the death has been digitally communicated to the government estate. Banks frequently ask for the URN in addition to the death certificate when processing bereavement claims, on the grounds that government acceptance of the death implies legitimacy. The family that knows to ask for the URN, and to write it down, saves themselves a small amount of friction at the bank.

What to do about the private sector

For the private-sector notifications that Tell Us Once does not cover, two free aggregator services — Life Ledger and Settld — between them cover most major UK banks, insurers, and utility providers. Both are funded by the receiving organisations, not the family. Both reduce a sequence of hundreds of phone calls to a single form. Neither is part of Tell Us Once, and neither is mentioned at the registry appointment, because the registry is not in the business of recommending private services.

The combined effect — Tell Us Once for the government estate, Life Ledger or Settld for the private estate — does most of the heavy notification work that previously consumed weeks of executor time. It is one of the genuine improvements in UK death administration of the past decade, and one of the least communicated.

● Last reviewed ·
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● Sources
  1. 1.GOV.UK — Tell Us Once service (DWP)
  2. 2.Births and Deaths Registration Act 1953
Published by Standard Index Group
Updated Mar 2026

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